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Елена Бажан
Новый год! — потому что праздновать начинают с конца октября, вернее, готовиться тем, что за окном ещё листья жёлтые, а в магазинах уже атрибутика новогодняя. И распродажи остатков шариков и мишуры до марта месяца. Тошнит от этого бесконечного бала. Никакого ощущения праздника. А в советское время (извините, долго живу) магазины наряжали не раньше 25 декабря, дома ёлку ставили не раньше, и эти дни до нового года были на вес золота, да к тому же 3 января уже и на работу! И новый год был как волшебный мираж! !!
Спасибо за подробный ответ, я ценю
Юл
Юля
Международный женский день 8 марта. Ничего хуже в отношении женщин и придумать нельзя было. Почему? Причин много. Во-первых, история появления праздника этого. Во-вторых, некоторые женщины к сожалению только в этот день слышат слова в их адрес, которые должны, как мне видится, слышать гораздо чаще. В-третьих, есть странная тенденция в обществе, когда женщины поздравляют друг друга в этот день, дарят друг другу подарки) мне это кажется странным)
Одуван
дело в том что если 9 то 8 они все нагреются и зажучат уже 9, а 7 как бы уже поздравил ))
Одуван
но и как бы не с 8 поздравил
Демонолог Миднайт
Это слишком сложная для моего скудного восприятия схема. Нужно мнение кого-нибудь, у кого есть вагина. Жаль, Роза Люксембург и Клара Цеткин в дискуссии не участвуют)
Одуван
всё, я буду своих всех 7 поздравлять с этим замечательным днём 7 марта! 
☀ ₪₪₪ 𝔏𝔲 ℭ𝔥𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔞𝔶𝔞 ₪₪₪ ☀
Все эти праздники прекрасно воспринимаются и весело отмечаются, когда у человека есть близкие друзья и/или близкие люди, а также — когда есть здоровье, благополучие и соответствующее (праздничное) настроение. Если чего-то из вышеперечисленного нет, то любой праздник — не праздник))) Это моё личное восприятие)
Светлана Закадычная
День памяти и День Победы,потому что тогда неофашисты и тд,аквтивизируются. Не знаю,как в цивилизованых городах,у нас запросто можно получить ножком,или убегать от коктелей молотова,если прийдёшь на парад
Светлана Закадычная
Не знаю,мне прошлого хватило)) этот,умеет развлечь и скреативить,только редко,а про политику — не знаю
Упс
Если праздник есть — значит он кому-то нужен. Кто-то веселится и заряжается хорошим настроением. Он может не вызывать во мне никаких эмоций как например какой-нибудь «день конституции». Но «нелюбовь»
Татьяна Tatiana
День города — не люблю! Просто толпы народа по набережной снуют…лавочек свободных нет. мороженое — дорогущее…и домой потом хоть пешком иди — все забито наивными отдыхающими
Ан
Анти3Ая
Новый год. Не понимаю его смысла. Готовить огромное количество еды 2 дня к ряду, потом ждать полночи чтобы поесть и выпить шампанского, слушать до утра взрывы «фейрверков»
Ан
Анти3Ая
А я наверное просто сорока, мне нравится как они блестят
ЛМ
Леонид Музафаров
Непонятно зачем Рождество сделали выходным. Это праздник религиозный а у нас во первых многоконфессиональная страна а во вторых церковь отделена от государства.
Демонолог Миднайт
К сожалению, если на конституцию плевать даже главе конституционного суда, что уж говорить о прочих
Раджа
День народного единства, день независимости России. Вообще праздники не о чём, непонятные, надуманные, не трогают ни за какие струнки, и ничего с ними не связано
Демонолог Миднайт
Гей-парады не мои. Как и первомайские шествия. Я вас ни к чему не призывал. Советское прошлое очернять не имеет смысла, оно итак чернее некуда — я лишь сказал, что мне не нравится, что моя страна не признает ошибки своего прошлого и пытается сделать из этого гордость. Перед неграми на колени вставать не призывал и не призываю, но считаю, что свои косяки надо признавать. А именно, введение войск, нелепые войны на чужих территориях и преступления против мирного населения типа Голодомора. Более того, я вообще не считаю новые праздники России хорошими. И не считаю по очень простой причине — она до них не доросла. Слишком большой процент ее жителей хочет жить в прошлом — писать доносы, выискивать врагов, бряцать оружием, называть всех шушерой и заниматься самолюбованием, живя в обоссанных подъездах на нищенскую зарплату. Эту страну не победить, потому что она полностью лишена самокритичность. Слишком уж много в ней идиотов.
Демонолог Миднайт
))) смешно, да. Я, кстати, признаю хорошее в СССР — писал об этом в других вопросах. Просто плохое для меня весомее.
Раджа
Ну мухи тоже на хорошую еду иногда садятся, но говно для них вкуснее(весомее)
Демонолог Миднайт
Наверное, поэтому я с таким интересом уже не первый год изучаю СССР)
Рина
День рождения. Потому что в этот день я в центре внимания только по календарю. Уже на следующее утро даже не спрашивают как дела. И так до следующего.
Рина
В таком случае, звать некого будет.
Milky Way
хэллоуин! не могу объяснить почему) просто не нравится и всё, скорее всего из-за того, что этот праздник чужд нашей культуре
Milky Way
так это нормально)) на вкус и цвет фломастеры же разные)
Светлана Надежкина
Новый год, т. к. на следующий день у сына день рождение. Всё отсыпаются первого, а я готовлю стол. И гости приходят вечером
Искорка.
Когда куча ёлок, утренников и т. д. К самому новому году подхожу уже вымотанной. Ну и первое сентября , наверное.
Искорка.
Хотя думаю много камней будет брошено в 14 февраля
Демонолог Миднайт
Не знаю, мне кажется, 14 февраля ни на что и не претендует. Он простой и понятный — берешь любимую женщину, даришь ей подарок и проводишь замечательный вечер с ней вдвоем, полностью отключившись от внешнего мира. Классный праздник…если, конечно, есть любимый человек, и это взаимно 
Искорка.
Замечательное адекватное отношение)) у меня примерно такое же.
Екатерина
Всякие идиотские из серии дни матери, отца, бабушки, дедушек, троюродного племянника, кота, собаки и тд и тп
Эдя Пск
У меня из два — день почившей в бозе Красной Армии и день памяти Октябрьской революции — 4 ноября.
Валерия
1мая…куча народу едет на дачи,чтобы напиться и наесться шашлыков,а потом до утра песни орать)
Валерия
Полно и ежегодно,я просто за городом живу и майскую картину лицезрею с завидным постоянством)
Vaess
Новый год. В этот праздник меньше всего неадекватов, не смотря на то что многие упороты вхлам.
Vaess
Я неправильно прочитал вопрос. Вот же чёрт. Нелюбимый праздник — это день святого Блевантина 
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Aleksey Lushin
День народного единства. Ха. Изгнание поляков. А почему не взятие Измаила? Или Курская битва?
Fenix
Новый год, много работы , уборки , готовки , после всего очень часто уставшая и вымотанная .
Галина Смирнова
Не любила осенний праздник -7 ноября,т.к уже прохладно,а заставляли идти на демонстраци.
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Нелюбимый праздник))
Есть праздники, которые я люблю, а есть — которые не люблю. Так вот: день Ивана Купала я очень люблю, а не люблю — все вот эти «новообразования» типа 4 ноября( День народного согласия — кто и с кем соглашается? Минин с Пожарским, или они оба — с поляками?)
И вот ещё один нелюбимый мною праздник — 8 июля, День Петра и Февронии ( Хавронии). Ну вот действительно — кто и почему сделал из весьма сомнительной истории любви — День семьи, любви и верности?
Памятник в Волгограде Петру и Февронии.
Мы по сути, отмечаем день их смерти — — 8 июля 1228 года. «В свое время они были идеальной супружеской парой и умерли в один день» — пишут в Интернетах. Ну и сами судите, какой парой они были, и насколько велик был идеал!
Вы вообще читали их историю? Ну да, где крестьянская девушка Феврония вылечила княжеского сына Петра за обещание на ней жениться. Пётр вылечился, и — жениться отказался, прислав Февронии вместо этого дары. Ну, и как водится — опять заболел: нечего обманывать бедную девушку! Он явился к Февронии ещё раз, пообещав жениться вновь — и выздоровел. А так как Пётр не хотел заболевать и в третий раз, на Февронии он всё-таки женился)) К слову, мы называем девушку Феврония на греческий лад, как скажем, Степана мы назвали бы Стефан. В России у нас это имя звучит как Хавронья.(.да-да, вы правильно вспомнили: если лиса у нас — Патрикеевна, если медведь — Михайло Потапович, то Хавроньей в народе зовут свинью — это не я придумала) Хотя поступок её — ну, скажем так — не очень)))
Нет, ну я понимаю: это — история женской хитрости и ( для Февронии-Хавроньи) брака по расчёту. Всё же князья на крестьянках женились нечасто, прямо скажем. Да и все мы, женщины, знаем, как мужчины порой брака побаиваются, особенно мезальяса в браке ( князь — крестьянка) Но — любовь-то тут причём? Был бы Пётр очарован этой Хавроньей — женился бы сразу. Или хотя бы продолжал к ней ездить после исцеления. А раз обманул и прислал дары — не было у него любви к ней, увы. И то, что потом народ его заставил оставить трон, и он ушёл вслед за Хавроньей — тоже не говорит о его любви к ней. Знаете, что такое захват власти? Возможно, у него и выбора-то не было.
…Мы часто ругаем западный праздник 14 февраля — День Святого Валентина. Мол, и что праздник-то западный ( традиция пробных браков на год и один день, когда парень выбирал себе «Валентину», а она — «Валентина» — европейская), и что сам Святой Валентин — это не наш святой, и празднуем-то мы день его казни, а не рождения ( Святого Валентина римская церковь казнила — за то, что венчал легионеров, которым нельзя было жениться). И вот мы назначаем наш праздник любви и верности — и берём за основу историю, в которой любовь и не ночевала?!
Удивительно ли, что Любовь у нас всегда где-то на последнем месте?
В преддверии самого богомерзкого дня решил создать данный сабж.
А именно — 14 февраля — День Тупого валентина(Юд Какашкина )
Празндик, созданный девками для девок и их ручных куколдов
. Эти блевотные
А теперь о хорошем
А теперь хочу узнать какие праздники вы любите и ненавидите. А может, вы их вообще не празнуете?
. Эти блевотные 
валентайнки
, обилие розового, а самое главное — кучка целующихся и обнимающихся парочек 
. А учитывая, что ты всю жизнь одинок и никого не любил 
, то этот праздник оборачиваеться в день траура
, как память об умерших надеждах найти свою любовь.
. Мой любимый праздник — Масленица. Блины, куча блинов с различными начинками, шашлычки, квасок 
(да я понимаю, что это можно кушать и в обычный день, но в этот день блины особенно вкусные, и да не напоминайте мне про блины с лопаты, я не говноед, за вкусную еду я готов заплатить). А также различные гуляния, веселуха, конкурсы, игры. Хотя раньше на Масленицу было веселее, но всё равно это самый весевес праздник.In this post, we will understand why holidays are disliked, top disliked holiday, some strategies to get over with holiday dislikes and hatred and FAQs related to the topic.
People dislike the holidays because of the following reasons:
- Running errands and shopping
- Social gathering and get together
- Family gathering and subsequent tragedy
- Having houseguest
- Longstanding tensions
- Retail workers get to see people’s worst self
- The high expectation by others
- Persistent greed of consumerist culture.
- Overloaded pressure and burden
- Tinsel and the decorations
- Reminisce certain traumatic events
- Left alone without family and away from home.
- Holiday chaos
- Traffics and the hustle-bustle
Holiday
It is an extended time for leisure during which one doesn’t have to go for work and spend the day away from home as well as workplace. The holiday is also a day set aside by the law itself during which the normal routine of business and works in the school, organisation, office is suspended or freed.
Most disliked holiday
Despite the wait for a holiday for some people, some hate the holiday season. Although holidays are marked for celebration and gatherings, there are certain holidays hate and disliked by people.
Some of the disliked holidays are:
- Black Friday
- Valentine Day
- Columbus Day
- April Fools Day
- New Year eve
- Thanksgiving
- Fourth of July
- Presidents day
- Christmas
Holidays are disliked for the following reasons
A family tragedy and traumatic events
For some people, holiday reminisces the traumatic family event ever happened in one’s life and it triggers painful memories of the past. Rather than the joy and excitement of the holiday, it is a painful memory of past and remains gloomy.
The never-ending gatherings and meeting are a nightmare for some people especially the introverts. Talking and catching with people are awake and the holiday vibe in and around is avoided by certain people.
Family visits
Despite the family being the number one and closest to one’s heart, the prolonged discussion is exhausting and boring for some people. Asking end number of question about life, studies, plan by family members especially the elder ones are infuriating for some people.
Having houseguest
To entertain and host-guests during the holiday season are perceived as an extra burden for some. Having house guest in a row and serving them are challenging as well as a tiring task when people prefer to relax during holidays.
Purchasing gifts
Purchasing gifts to family, friends and co-workers when you are low on a budget is the most difficult task and to-do during the holiday season.
High expectation
The high expectation set by others during a holiday to get a gift and presents makes the holiday a challenging task especially to meet the expectation.
Holiday, a drive to consumerist culture
Everything about the holiday spirit is more like moving towards or propagating the consumerist culture. The black Friday sale, lining up for sale and people buying everything from the wish list are all driving us towards this culture.
Pressure to spend
The holiday is made up as a season to spend lavishly on clothes, food, dine-out, clubbing, etc. Different things canto spend to get a gift for coworkers and friends and then to impress them with the goodies are all driving us towards materialism and shadowing the real celebration with gifts and presents.
Tinsel and the decoration
The lighting and the decoration over the street, home and neighbourhood solely for holiday vibes are not preferred and favoured by certain people.
Fighting and people showing their worst selves
It is often around the holiday season that people get into fighting and display all their worst behaviour. Customer frequently ell on the employee for out of stock items and run out stuff. There is the exploitation of customer as well during the sale season of holidays.
Cuffing Season
Another reason behind people’s hatred and dislike for the holiday is the cuffing season. The motivation of people to coupled up during the transition from fall to winter is found to strange and mysterious.
Overcoming the holiday dislike and hatred
Although holidays are not preferred and enjoyed by all, it can still be lived to the fullest and use for personal recreation and leisure as well as a quality time with family.
Some of the ways to overcome and get over with the holiday dislike are:
Ditch and leave aside what doesn’t find enjoyable and pleasurable
If you find going to the mall and catching up people tough and daunting task, ditch those plan, or reduce such plan. Doing so will free up your time for other productive things and activities to do.
Treat yourself with long-awaited one
Since it’’s a custom to get a gift and present to near and dear ones during the holiday, getting yourself a gift or treating yourself will keep you happier and satisfied. It is proof that holiday is not only for treating and gifting others but also, pampering yourself with extra love.
Balancing yourself and conditioning
If you find a task gruelling and challenging, try to attach a positive perk or reward with it s that you are balanced in between the two. If you find visiting family members during holiday tough, condition it with an extra bunch of sweets or a drink so that the task gets done.
Exit plan
Sometimes if you find a gathering boring and little toxic to self, simply exit or drop the plan. There is no good in engaging yourself with people with whom you don’t fit and get along. Rather have a good me-time with a watch or some dessert.
Sticking to a normal routine
The holiday shouldn’t turn into a disaster and a disruption to your normal routine, thus sticking on to your oral daily routine helps in getting rid of holiday toxicity and tragedies. Simply following the normal mundane routine is ideal to get rid of holiday dislikes and hatred.
Take a time out
Since the holiday is to get together, gathering and catching up, it is always better to spend some time with oneself and enjoy the relaxation and recreation.
Doing something productive and constructive for oneself
One good way to utilise the holiday and overcome the holiday dislike is to upgrade your skill, passion or to spend some good time with oneself.
Not to say Yes for all the plan
Agreeing to all the plans framed and planned by others will keep one engaged and occupied. It is best not to spend all the energy with others rather have quality with oneself.
Be comfortable yet not festive
Since there is pressure on dressings, cooking and decoration, to have a comfortable space and relaxed mind during this hype is one good way to deal with the holiday hatred and dislikes.
Meditation and calming exercise
It is only during a holiday that one can exclusively spend time with their self. Different things can be done without getting bothered and disturbed by others, deadlines and workload. Thus, to meditate and practise some calming exercise can soothe both your mind and body.
Volunteering
Volunteering in a nearby old-age care centre or animal shelters, shut-in is a constructive and productive way to spend the holiday season. It benefits both the side and makes you feel achieved and rewarded.
Going to the gym and spa
Rather than indulging in holiday and festive party and gathering, it id relaxing and soothing to pamper oneself with spa and work out which naturally releases endorphin and keep one active and healthy.
Being tolerant of those who love holiday
It is not always that everyone feels and prefer doing the same. So, to understand and adjust with people who have an ideological clash with oneself is much needed. Those who enjoy the holiday and live in the moment should be respected and understand than getting disturbed and annoyed by them.
FAQs: Dislike holidays
What to do when you hate the holidays?
Different things can be done when you hate holiday such as
Volunteering
Sending unsent card
Going to the gym
Making non-holiday playlist
Eating and trying different cuisine
Spending time with oneself
Trekking and hiking
Clearing off a to-do lists
Is it normal not to like the holiday?
Yes, it is normal to feel down at holiday however, one should make sure it doesn’t take toll of mental and physical health.
What can I do instead of Christmas?
Some alternative for Christmas celebration are:
Holidaying
Going to the national park
Trying different cuisine
Volunteering
Going for movie
Camping
How can I make holidays less stressful?
Some steps to make the holiday less challenging and stressful to deal with are:
Asking the family’s support and help
Spending holiday at home
Clearing off the wish list
Shopping
Limiting social events or more
Are the holidays stressful?
Yes, holidays can be stressful as well as demanding for many reasons.
How can I enjoy the Christmas holiday?
There are different ways to enjoy the Christmas holiday be it with family or friends. Some of them are:
Making a to-do list or planning beforehand
Avoid many commitments
Make Christmas budget
Don’t leave everything at the end
Decoarate with minimalism
Get over with work clutters before Christmas
Stay away from social media and live in the moment
Enjoy the moment to the fullest
What to do if you are not with family during Christmas?
It is not always bad and a gloomy feeling not to celebrate Christmas with family. Some of the things one can do during Christmas away from family are:
Buying yourself a gift and present
Signing up for work and shifts
Deep cleaning home
Enjoying with cooks, bakes and watches
Sending holiday cards
Going out to friends place and drop by
Which is the most popular holiday?
Christmas and Thanksgiving are celebrated as the most special and popular holiday.
Which holiday makes the most money?
Winter holiday and Back-to-School makes the most money.
Is Halloween a holiday?
Yes, it is a holiday observed on 31st October.
When can you start saying Happy Holiday?
It is accepted to be the most inclusive and broadest greeting for all kind of holiday.
Why does the holiday give me anxiety?
Holidays can be stressing and anxiety-provoking for any reasons. Some of them are unrealistic expectation, financial pressure, excessive commitment, etc.
What is the most stressful time of the year?
For some holidays and preparing for it is the most stressful time of the year, however, for others, it is a source of pleasure and joy.
Conclusion
In this post, “ dislike holiday” is explored, the reasons for disliking holiday, worst holiday, strategies and tips for overcoming the hatred and dislike for holiday and finally wrapped up with few FAQs in accordance to the topic.
For more information
https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/holidays/christmas-ideas/a29108557/why-people-hate-christmas/
https://www.popsugar.com/love/Ways-Cope-You-Dislike-Holidays-44307707
https://www.bustle.com/articles/131557-7-things-introverts-hate-about-the-holidays
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In this post, we will understand why holidays are disliked, top disliked holiday, some strategies to get over with holiday dislikes and hatred and FAQs related to the topic.
People dislike the holidays because of the following reasons:
- Running errands and shopping
- Social gathering and get together
- Family gathering and subsequent tragedy
- Having houseguest
- Longstanding tensions
- Retail workers get to see people’s worst self
- The high expectation by others
- Persistent greed of consumerist culture.
- Overloaded pressure and burden
- Tinsel and the decorations
- Reminisce certain traumatic events
- Left alone without family and away from home.
- Holiday chaos
- Traffics and the hustle-bustle
Holiday
It is an extended time for leisure during which one doesn’t have to go for work and spend the day away from home as well as workplace. The holiday is also a day set aside by the law itself during which the normal routine of business and works in the school, organisation, office is suspended or freed.
Most disliked holiday
Despite the wait for a holiday for some people, some hate the holiday season. Although holidays are marked for celebration and gatherings, there are certain holidays hate and disliked by people.
Some of the disliked holidays are:
- Black Friday
- Valentine Day
- Columbus Day
- April Fools Day
- New Year eve
- Thanksgiving
- Fourth of July
- Presidents day
- Christmas
Holidays are disliked for the following reasons
A family tragedy and traumatic events
For some people, holiday reminisces the traumatic family event ever happened in one’s life and it triggers painful memories of the past. Rather than the joy and excitement of the holiday, it is a painful memory of past and remains gloomy.
The never-ending gatherings and meeting are a nightmare for some people especially the introverts. Talking and catching with people are awake and the holiday vibe in and around is avoided by certain people.
Family visits
Despite the family being the number one and closest to one’s heart, the prolonged discussion is exhausting and boring for some people. Asking end number of question about life, studies, plan by family members especially the elder ones are infuriating for some people.
Having houseguest
To entertain and host-guests during the holiday season are perceived as an extra burden for some. Having house guest in a row and serving them are challenging as well as a tiring task when people prefer to relax during holidays.
Purchasing gifts
Purchasing gifts to family, friends and co-workers when you are low on a budget is the most difficult task and to-do during the holiday season.
High expectation
The high expectation set by others during a holiday to get a gift and presents makes the holiday a challenging task especially to meet the expectation.
Holiday, a drive to consumerist culture
Everything about the holiday spirit is more like moving towards or propagating the consumerist culture. The black Friday sale, lining up for sale and people buying everything from the wish list are all driving us towards this culture.
Pressure to spend
The holiday is made up as a season to spend lavishly on clothes, food, dine-out, clubbing, etc. Different things canto spend to get a gift for coworkers and friends and then to impress them with the goodies are all driving us towards materialism and shadowing the real celebration with gifts and presents.
Tinsel and the decoration
The lighting and the decoration over the street, home and neighbourhood solely for holiday vibes are not preferred and favoured by certain people.
Fighting and people showing their worst selves
It is often around the holiday season that people get into fighting and display all their worst behaviour. Customer frequently ell on the employee for out of stock items and run out stuff. There is the exploitation of customer as well during the sale season of holidays.
Cuffing Season
Another reason behind people’s hatred and dislike for the holiday is the cuffing season. The motivation of people to coupled up during the transition from fall to winter is found to strange and mysterious.
Overcoming the holiday dislike and hatred
Although holidays are not preferred and enjoyed by all, it can still be lived to the fullest and use for personal recreation and leisure as well as a quality time with family.
Some of the ways to overcome and get over with the holiday dislike are:
Ditch and leave aside what doesn’t find enjoyable and pleasurable
If you find going to the mall and catching up people tough and daunting task, ditch those plan, or reduce such plan. Doing so will free up your time for other productive things and activities to do.
Treat yourself with long-awaited one
Since it’’s a custom to get a gift and present to near and dear ones during the holiday, getting yourself a gift or treating yourself will keep you happier and satisfied. It is proof that holiday is not only for treating and gifting others but also, pampering yourself with extra love.
Balancing yourself and conditioning
If you find a task gruelling and challenging, try to attach a positive perk or reward with it s that you are balanced in between the two. If you find visiting family members during holiday tough, condition it with an extra bunch of sweets or a drink so that the task gets done.
Exit plan
Sometimes if you find a gathering boring and little toxic to self, simply exit or drop the plan. There is no good in engaging yourself with people with whom you don’t fit and get along. Rather have a good me-time with a watch or some dessert.
Sticking to a normal routine
The holiday shouldn’t turn into a disaster and a disruption to your normal routine, thus sticking on to your oral daily routine helps in getting rid of holiday toxicity and tragedies. Simply following the normal mundane routine is ideal to get rid of holiday dislikes and hatred.
Take a time out
Since the holiday is to get together, gathering and catching up, it is always better to spend some time with oneself and enjoy the relaxation and recreation.
Doing something productive and constructive for oneself
One good way to utilise the holiday and overcome the holiday dislike is to upgrade your skill, passion or to spend some good time with oneself.
Not to say Yes for all the plan
Agreeing to all the plans framed and planned by others will keep one engaged and occupied. It is best not to spend all the energy with others rather have quality with oneself.
Be comfortable yet not festive
Since there is pressure on dressings, cooking and decoration, to have a comfortable space and relaxed mind during this hype is one good way to deal with the holiday hatred and dislikes.
Meditation and calming exercise
It is only during a holiday that one can exclusively spend time with their self. Different things can be done without getting bothered and disturbed by others, deadlines and workload. Thus, to meditate and practise some calming exercise can soothe both your mind and body.
Volunteering
Volunteering in a nearby old-age care centre or animal shelters, shut-in is a constructive and productive way to spend the holiday season. It benefits both the side and makes you feel achieved and rewarded.
Going to the gym and spa
Rather than indulging in holiday and festive party and gathering, it id relaxing and soothing to pamper oneself with spa and work out which naturally releases endorphin and keep one active and healthy.
Being tolerant of those who love holiday
It is not always that everyone feels and prefer doing the same. So, to understand and adjust with people who have an ideological clash with oneself is much needed. Those who enjoy the holiday and live in the moment should be respected and understand than getting disturbed and annoyed by them.
FAQs: Dislike holidays
What to do when you hate the holidays?
Different things can be done when you hate holiday such as
Volunteering
Sending unsent card
Going to the gym
Making non-holiday playlist
Eating and trying different cuisine
Spending time with oneself
Trekking and hiking
Clearing off a to-do lists
Is it normal not to like the holiday?
Yes, it is normal to feel down at holiday however, one should make sure it doesn’t take toll of mental and physical health.
What can I do instead of Christmas?
Some alternative for Christmas celebration are:
Holidaying
Going to the national park
Trying different cuisine
Volunteering
Going for movie
Camping
How can I make holidays less stressful?
Some steps to make the holiday less challenging and stressful to deal with are:
Asking the family’s support and help
Spending holiday at home
Clearing off the wish list
Shopping
Limiting social events or more
Are the holidays stressful?
Yes, holidays can be stressful as well as demanding for many reasons.
How can I enjoy the Christmas holiday?
There are different ways to enjoy the Christmas holiday be it with family or friends. Some of them are:
Making a to-do list or planning beforehand
Avoid many commitments
Make Christmas budget
Don’t leave everything at the end
Decoarate with minimalism
Get over with work clutters before Christmas
Stay away from social media and live in the moment
Enjoy the moment to the fullest
What to do if you are not with family during Christmas?
It is not always bad and a gloomy feeling not to celebrate Christmas with family. Some of the things one can do during Christmas away from family are:
Buying yourself a gift and present
Signing up for work and shifts
Deep cleaning home
Enjoying with cooks, bakes and watches
Sending holiday cards
Going out to friends place and drop by
Which is the most popular holiday?
Christmas and Thanksgiving are celebrated as the most special and popular holiday.
Which holiday makes the most money?
Winter holiday and Back-to-School makes the most money.
Is Halloween a holiday?
Yes, it is a holiday observed on 31st October.
When can you start saying Happy Holiday?
It is accepted to be the most inclusive and broadest greeting for all kind of holiday.
Why does the holiday give me anxiety?
Holidays can be stressing and anxiety-provoking for any reasons. Some of them are unrealistic expectation, financial pressure, excessive commitment, etc.
What is the most stressful time of the year?
For some holidays and preparing for it is the most stressful time of the year, however, for others, it is a source of pleasure and joy.
Conclusion
In this post, “ dislike holiday” is explored, the reasons for disliking holiday, worst holiday, strategies and tips for overcoming the hatred and dislike for holiday and finally wrapped up with few FAQs in accordance to the topic.
For more information
https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/holidays/christmas-ideas/a29108557/why-people-hate-christmas/
https://www.popsugar.com/love/Ways-Cope-You-Dislike-Holidays-44307707
https://www.bustle.com/articles/131557-7-things-introverts-hate-about-the-holidays
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Berke, B. (2016, 12 19). Reasons I Hate The Holidays And Don’t Care Who Knows It. elite daily. https://www.elitedaily.com/life/reasons-i-hate-the-holidays/1722725
Breddy, K. (2016, 11 15). 5 Ways to Deal When You Secretly Hate the Holidays. shape. https://www.shape.com/lifestyle/mind-and-body/5-ways-deal-when-you-secretly-hate-holidays
Kelly, E. (2015, 12 23). 7 Things Introverts Hate About The Holidays. Bustle. 7 Things Introverts Hate About The Holidays
Neill, A. O. (2018, 12 20). Unpopular opinion: I hate the holidays. OPINION. https://www.dailycal.org/2018/12/20/unpopular-opinion-i-hate-the-holidays/
Schumer, L. (2019, 9 30). Why Do Some People Hate Christmas? It’s More Common Than You Think. GH. https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/holidays/christmas-ideas/a29108557/why-people-hate-christmas/
Serna, A. (2015, 28 12). Why I Hate the Holiday Season. HuffPost. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/why-i-hate-the-holiday-se_b_8875292